So, Tacha sat down in an interview on Outside the Box and dropped this line that immediately made me pause:

“Don’t be out there dating just one man. You need 3 other boyfriends in your life.”

At first, I laughed. Then I thought about it. And honestly? I get where she’s coming from.

Why She Said It

Tacha isn’t exactly known for sugarcoating. She speaks her truth, even when it rattles people. And here, she’s really talking about the imbalance so many women experience—giving their all to one man, only to end up drained, disappointed, and left with nothing.

Her point? Stop investing everything into one person who may not even value you. Keep your options open. Don’t make one man the center of your universe.

The Reactions

Of course, the internet split into two camps:

• Some cheered her on. “Finally someone said it! Women deserve options too.”
• Others dragged her. “This is toxic. This is why relationships don’t last anymore.”

But whether you love her take or hate it, you can’t deny it made you think.